Most bisexuals choose to hide themselves in hark. They conceal who they are and make firends in an isolated social circle. This greatly prevent new bisexuals to find a companion and get support from other bisexuals.
Through my working for a bisexual dating site www.findbilover.com, i have some suggestions for those lonely bisexuals.
1. Be patient. Finding a lover is hard, finding a bisexual lover is harder. It is because no bisexual has themselves labeled. So, you must be patient and willing to spend to make friends with them.
2. Admit who you are. If you think it is time, you can tell your friends that you are bisexual. Coming out will make you known to more people, people will talking about you. You know, it is just like an advertisement. So, those hidden bisexual males and females will come to you. then, you will have many bisexual friends and won't feel lonely any more.
3. Try some dating sites, like www.findbilover.com. It is a quick and useful way to find new bisexual friends. But still, you should keep in mind that be patient. Don't be too eager, like saying are you bisexual, i want to know you at the beginning. You are frightening.
2008年1月1日星期二
What is the reason a person is homosexual?
Well, probably, just for the same reasons that some people are black or wear glasses or really pretty or fat - as far as research goes, it's at least partly due to genetics. So basically, no other reason but the fact that they were born that way.
Now another question would be why do some people who were born with the homosexual tendencies choose to act upon them and some don't. The answer to that has to do with upbringing, education and their own personal inclination.
I believe that a person is most happy, fulfilled and a productive force in society when they learn to listen to their inner needs and wants and act upon them. I think that the truer a person is to himself the more they'll get out of life and the more they'll contribute to the world. I think that it's very sad for some people to live without even fulfilling their desires, may it be for people of their own gender or not.
Now another question would be why do some people who were born with the homosexual tendencies choose to act upon them and some don't. The answer to that has to do with upbringing, education and their own personal inclination.
I believe that a person is most happy, fulfilled and a productive force in society when they learn to listen to their inner needs and wants and act upon them. I think that the truer a person is to himself the more they'll get out of life and the more they'll contribute to the world. I think that it's very sad for some people to live without even fulfilling their desires, may it be for people of their own gender or not.
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